Chill parents

@3AM.

Me: Daddy i want to go downstairs to get something from 7-11

Dad: You're going to get raped by some psychotic pervert if you go down.

Mum: You're meeting bad company,but i trust you know what to do.

If you're a girl you most probably would experience this,but lucky for me,my mum is fine and she's more of a open minded woman.She shows that she cares by nagging at me,and sad to say,i really cannot tolerate people who go on non stop,you can but please,there's a limit.i would really love it if i had parents who would let me go out without having to ask a million questions about who's going to be with me and what are we going to do,or they would let me go out any time of the night without worrying about me doing anything bad or getting into trouble.Everyone wants chill parents,not chill to the extent that they don't care at all,but the type to know their limits.Like,they'll let my guy friends come over and trust me to come home late.The type to act like best friends and know when to care and loosen up.you know?i can't seem to understand my dad,sometimes he can be so understanding,and the next moment he'll show the 'i'm not in the best of mood now don't provoke me' face.i need to master the art of observing my dad's expression and the way he talks,especially if i need his consent on something.He's just too unpredictable.i came to realise that every parents gave their children what they think is good for their kids but never take the time out to ask what we really need and want.It's a one sided thing,i hate that.when we have different point of views which lead to an argument,they would say 'i gave you everything you want,what more can you ask for.'Really?did you really gave me what i ask for.No.Parents themselves don't even realise this point,their mindset is you're my child,i won't do anything to harm you,everything i think is best for you would be the best,so you just got to suck it up and do what i say.the dumbest thing a parent can say is 'this isn't how i raised you',i wish i could tell them yes it really is,you literally raised me and here i am.i know my parents love me,you may think that i'm ranting about all this because i'm really upset with them,but no.i love them,i really do.i'm just stating out what parents have neglected.No wonder there's a saying,a lot of parents will do anything for their kids except let them be themselves.Another thing would be over protective parents,they raised the best liars.When parents are over protective,they would prevent their kids from doing this and that,and coincidentally that particular thing is what we want to do,we'll do it no matter what,it's not something bad anyway,so it'll lead us to tell lies and as the days goes on,you'll find that you need another lie to cover up the previous lie.Conservative parents=rebellious children,i don't have to elaborate this.i know it's hard to be a parent nowadays,like what my parents say.But if both parties can give in a little,it'll be so much easier for us.Lastly,i know whatever they do is out of concern and love,so i'll still love them.
i can still go on and on but i can't afford the time,so bye.